In life we have face a lot of obstacles, conflicts, personal
problems, financial, career and so on. Regardless of all these, we have to be
happy.
H-A-P-P-Y…This five letters are very powerful. In whatever
we do, in whatever we are, we must HAPPY. Being happy or not is our own choice.
When we are happy we will regain power, energy and aura.
There are no certain procedure and standard to be happy. We
might be happy for any occasion or we happy because we are surrounded by happy
people.
Nonetheless, the key to happiness is LOVE. People will happy
the most when they are in love and be with the loves one.
I’m so inspired by Kirk Wilkinson the author of The
Happiness Factor, hence the above introduction.
There are few peoples that I know who have conflicts to be
happy or not in life.
- ohn has a mixed-marriage who his own family is against his choice. Her wife is not the same race as his. Every time when they meet it will turn up as a huge argument. It is very difficult for him to make his family accept his marriage. Despite all these obstacles, he loves his wife very much and at the same time he wants a happy life. Not only in marriage but also the relationship with her family as well. He still needs the blessing from his family.
- Mary has a high position in the organization. When she gives birth to a twin, her life change 360 degree. After a long maternity leave, she gets back to work. Once she get back to office, she realizes that her heart always at home. She misses her babies very much and can’t pay attention towards her duty. The next move she hands in her resignation letter. She has decided that family will be her top priority. She will be happier to be with her family rather than having all the good reputation, name and position in career.
- After in a relationship for five years, finally Rich has settle down with his girlfriend. No doubt she is very beautiful and Rich loves to indulge her with expensive gifts to make her happy. Sometimes he needs to splurge her until beyond his financial capacity. His credit card bills are keeping piling up and there are less trips to luxurious restaurant, branded gifts and clothes. One thing he realizes, her beautiful wife also start to distance herself.
- All names above are not the real name.
